tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post475841496900940190..comments2023-11-02T09:13:54.430-05:00Comments on Here and Now : Out LoudAngelahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05748840293468845389noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-48491002703041867812011-06-22T08:49:20.886-05:002011-06-22T08:49:20.886-05:00Hey, just to clear the air! It's not what you...Hey, just to clear the air! It's not what you said to me that hurt, it's what those animals dared to do to my baby! So, please don't give it another moment of your thoughts. I know when you can that you'll kick their a---s to the curb. Love again. MomMomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-43731272112960415512011-06-22T08:17:56.669-05:002011-06-22T08:17:56.669-05:00Who better to say how you feel and hopefully know ...Who better to say how you feel and hopefully know that you finally safe to say it. Give yourself permission to say it out loud and really know that you're saying it!<br />Please remember that each time you do, it gets easier. The words can't hurt you. The actions of what others have already done are what hurt the very most. Take back the freedom of your voice! MomMomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-49049077570562158382011-06-22T07:03:36.048-05:002011-06-22T07:03:36.048-05:00I'm glad that you know that:) I still am not s...I'm glad that you know that:) I still am not sure of how I feel about knowing that I said those words out loud to you. I love you too.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05748840293468845389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-72523841982222204692011-06-22T06:52:38.637-05:002011-06-22T06:52:38.637-05:00My darling daughter, I never for a moment thought ...My darling daughter, I never for a moment thought you wanted to hurt me. It only hurt because of my own guilt for allowing you and your brother to go to your dads in the first place and also because I couldn't protect you. Yes, you need to shout it out loud, because when you do it will dissolve the power that those sick men have over you. You are strong and brave enough, of this I'm sure. Take that little girl and protect her with your words. In my heart I'll be there with you. I love you more than I can put into words, MomMomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-37239565259014775782011-06-22T00:12:54.424-05:002011-06-22T00:12:54.424-05:00Angela, I think you should road trip with your mom...Angela, I think you should road trip with your mom up here when she gets in:) It is actually a really quick trip and I am totally serious! Come! <br />Also, about your post, I feel like you are trying to apologize for something that is not necessary to apologize for. If I am wrong, forgive me, but DID or not, when you tell someone about details of rape that SHOULD NEVER HAVE HAPPENED, you are going to have to expect that there is going to be a little shouting!<br />The following paragraph is from the first slogan in SIA and I believe that I read it today so that I would remember to write it here.<br />"We may get in touch with intense anger and it helps to realize that rage has a begining and an end. When we first get angry, it may frighten us, but there may be an inner child that starts jumping for joy. When that child is avenged, when she has been given voice, she will settle down again. After our need to be angry is satisfied, we will be able to let go of our anger."<br />I love you Angela.<br />Keep going!Evehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402788606813530631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-76798028562317270602011-06-21T16:21:05.816-05:002011-06-21T16:21:05.816-05:00I just wanted to say I am thinking of you. I have ...I just wanted to say I am thinking of you. I have never been sexually abused or raped and I can't imagine it or how it would make you feel but I could imagine it would hurt and make you feel so vulnerable to talk about it. Good luck with talking about it and be gentle with yourself.<br />*hugs*<br />SarahSairshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09110575221596955775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5596522382677342386.post-62482322016217450852011-06-21T15:47:38.910-05:002011-06-21T15:47:38.910-05:00This is so hard. Hun I'm sorry you had to go t...This is so hard. Hun I'm sorry you had to go through rape. I can only imagine how hard it is to open up about it. I hope you can find a way to talk about it, I found it so freeing to talk about the sexual abuse I went through.<br />xxxbattleinmindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13575530463833872387noreply@blogger.com